A “twin flame” doesn’t always refer to a romantic relationship but it’s a term that refers to people that share something bigger. If you’ve ever met someone who you instantly connect to, as if you were always destined to meet, even if you’re unsure quite why, they may be your twin flame.
Twin flame relationships tend to be intense, it’s someone with whom you have a profound spiritual connection to, with traits often compared to soul mates. While both describe a life-changing relationship, the two concepts are described as being entirely different.
Flame twin was first coined in the ’70s by Elizabeth Clare Prophet, the leader and founder of an international New Age religious organisation called The Church Universal and Triumphant (CUT). She also published the book Soul Mates and Twin Flames: The Spiritual Dimension of Love and Relationships.
However, the concept can be traced to the fifth century BC. According to Greek mythology, humans originally had a head with two faces, two pair of arms, and two pair of legs. However, Zeus feared their power and split them into two separate parts. The pair spends their lives in search of their other half – alas, your flame twin.
So what, exactly, does the term twin flame mean? And, perhaps more importantly, how do you know when you’ve found yours?
What is a twin flame?
Nia Williams, founder of Miss Date Doctor explains: “In matters of the heart, there’s something truly special called a ‘twin flame. It’s said to be a connection that goes beyond the ordinary – a deep, almost otherworldly bond between two souls. But, here’s the twist: it’s not quite the same as a soul mate. While a soul mate is like a kindred spirit, a twin flame is often described as your ‘mirror soul.’ It’s a profound, intense connection that can feel like destiny.”
How do you know when you have met your flame twin?
Nia says that recognising your twin flame isn’t as simple as swiping right on a dating app. “It’s more about a feeling, an undeniable pull that goes beyond physical attraction. You might have this uncanny sense of ‘coming home’ when you meet them.”
What are the dangers of a twin flame relationship?
Nia warns to be wary – as powerful as this connection is, it can come with its own set of challenges. “The pressure to make it work, even if you realise you’re not entirely compatible, can be immense. It’s like holding up a mirror to your own flaws and imperfections. So, while a twin flame can be a transformative experience, it’s essential to navigate it with self-awareness and emotional intelligence.”