To all the fellas out there with ladies to impress, listen up: You don’t need to purchase every item on Eartha Kitt’s “Santa Baby” wish list in order to find the perfect gift for your significant other. Whether it’s a sweet reference to an inside joke, beloved pastime, or simply an item you’ve noticed stops us mid-scroll, the best gifts we want to see under the tree have one thing in common: They give us the warm and fuzzies because they came from you.