Fun fact: investing in one of the best remote vibrators is a great way to spice up your sex life. With all the stimulation of one of the best vibrators but powered with a remote control or an app, they’re known for being amazing for partnered sex from afar.
While remote vibrators can be bullet vibrators, wand vibrators or rabbit vibrators, most are small — the benefit being that you can use them anywhere and everywhere. Yes, anywhere — people like to opt for remote vibrators as a way of enjoying sexual pleasure discreetly and in public.
According to a survey by Superdrug (opens in new tab), people are keen to be turned on outside the bedroom. At least 56% of men and 43% of women admitted that the idea of having sex in public was a turn-on, and remote sex toys can be a great way to get the thrill without breaking the rules.
“These compact, remote vibes are great to be worn in your knickers while out and about, and many are now connected to clothing with a magnet for security,” says sexologist Ness Cooper (opens in new tab).
Not only can you be teased by a partner on the other side of the room, but some can also be controlled by partners on the other side of the world. Just place the device where you want it for stimulation and let them use an app for vibrations.
Not sure where to start with the best remote vibrators? We asked our panel of experts for their recommendations below. Don’t miss our guide to the best vibrators on Amazon (opens in new tab), while you’re here.
What to look for in a remote vibrator:
- Distance: The first thing to consider is how nearby or far away you want to be from the person controlling the toy. If you are the controller, then distance isn’t a worry, but if someone else will be giving you pleasure then you’ll need one to extend the distance they’ll be operating from next to you, another room or oceans away.
- Remote or app: Do you want to use a proper remote to crank up the vibrations using Bluetooth? Perhaps you prefer to discreetly press ‘up’ on an app on your phone? There’s an option for everyone.
- Discreetness: Consider whether you need a toy small and sturdy enough to wear outside of the house or whether size doesn’t matter.
Best remote vibrators: 6 to try
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1. Satisfyer Double Plus Remote Vibrator
Pros: “This toy is one of the best remote control and app-based sex toys I’ve tried,” says Cooper. “They function so well from a distance and the shapes of the various sex toy designs are perfect for different individual needs and wants. The wearable vaginal sex toy can be used during vaginal penetration or leave it in your underwear for fun when out.”
Cons: Users have fed back that it takes a little getting used too, but once you get the hang of how to use it, it’s a lot of fun.
Pros: “This is a wearable, remote-controlled external panty vibrator with a contoured shape that lets you take the fun, rumbly vibrations with you wherever you go. Designed to be worn under your clothes, it is held in place by a slip-proof magnet and comes with a remote or app for discreet controlling,” says Rybchin.
Cons: This toy sits at a higher price point than a few other competitors, that said, the experts and reviewers love it. Naturally, if you don’t like the idea of someone else controlling your sex toy, it might be worth opting for a different sex toy altogether.
3. Lovense Ferri Remote Vibrator
Pros: “The Ferri is a small yet powerful magnetic panty vibrator that doesn’t move while it gives you pleasure. It can stimulate your clitoris while you stand, walk, sit, dance or lie for pleasure. It is small enough to not feel bulky when it’s switched off, but it’s powerful when it’s on,” adds Rybchin.
Cons: Might be too small for some.
4. Lovense Lush 3 Remote Vibrator
Pros: “As a whole, Lovense really has perfected the art of remote control vibrators. Everything in their line is remote controllable, including the Lush which can be used for internal stimulation of your lover across the globe,” says Ligon.
“This has become the go-to remote control vibrator for all kinds of fun. The egg-style massager features powerful vibrations directly to your G-spot while being quiet enough to enjoy wherever you go,” adds Caito.
Cons: A higher price point again, but worth it, judging by what the experts had to say.
5. Love Honey Love Egg Remote Vibrator
Pros: “This egg is inserted vaginally to rest against your G-spot, rather than the clitoris. Fun fact: as well as using the toy when out and about, the egg can be used at home to run over other parts of your body. Enjoy,” says Cooper.
Cons: “The egg vibrations aren’t strong enough for a full orgasm, it is very fun for couples play,” the expert continues.
6. Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Remote Control Egg
Pros: Our experts may not have tested this themselves, but with an average rating of 4.5 stars from 100+ reviews on Lovehoney, it’s clearly one of the standout toys to buy. One verified Lovehoney reviewer wrote: “We have been using this for a couple of months now and it is great fun – especially good on a naughty night at a restaurant on holiday. Thoroughly recommended.”
Cons: Some users commented on the vibration pattern being weaker than competitor toys, while others shared that it’s on the noisier end of the scale (read our edit of the best quiet sex toys (opens in new tab) and quiet sex positions (opens in new tab), here).