If you’re new to masturbation, it’s possible you haven’t inserted anything into your vagina yet (or for a while), so external-use toys are the safest bet. Plus, clitoral stimulation is the easiest way to achieve an orgasm for most vagina-possessing people. That’s why I’ve compiled the best user-friendly, totally approachable (not scary-looking!) vibrators for beginners, focused on wands, bullets, suction vibrators and other clit-centric vibes. Because it’s time to stop being overwhelmed and get right to the pleasure part of self-pleasure. Keep reading to learn about the seven best sex toys for beginners, so you can make your first sex toy purchase with confidence.

